How to Choose Between Two Guys ^^

Aku bingung then aku cuba cari something lastly aku jumpa ne .. yuhuu .. :-/

Heart torn in two over two different guys? Ever wanted to just stop the torture you go through trying to guess which one is better for you? Don't want to break your future husband's heart and pick a jerk who wants your body rather than your mind? Read on!

Steps

1. 1
   Start conversation with them.
2. 2
   Flirt with both of them to see which guy you like more, or which likes you more and is more responsive.
3. 3
   Ask them things, like a homework assignment or if they have the class notes.
4. 4
   Once you choose, ONLY flirt with that guy and not the other one. This may be hard but it's what you have to do. Do not attempt to lead the other guy on, that is cruel.
5. 5
   Weigh their similarities and differences, see what you really wanted in the first place. How does each one make you feel? Make a list of what you really want in a guy and don't. Do a pro/cons chart. Base it on either one of them, and think clearly.
6. 6
   If you are having a terrible time choosing, take an outsiders view on things. Which guy will treat you better and/or respect your boundaries? Which guy is going to support you when times get tough or listen to you when you're upset? Sometimes this clinical view will make things a little clearer.
7. 7
   Tell both guys stories about when you were young, the guy who adds comments or tells you a stories about his childhood, most likely paid more attention to your stories.
8. 8
   Talk to your close friends/best friends to see if they can help.
9. 9
   Don't flirt with other guys that you don't like to see if the guys you like will get defensive

Tips

• Ask him some questions like "What is your favorite thing to do on your spare time?"
• Only flirt with the guy you picked.
• Make sure you think this through, you don't want the wrong guy.
• If you can't decide and are one of those people who think, "Well what would it have been like if I picked the other one?", then try and get over BOTH of them. By trying to choose, you are only making things hard on yourself and may upset them.
• Remember no matter what advice anyone may give you that only you can decide which guy is right for you .
• If you are starting to get annoyed & stressed with the "Who did you choose?" or "When will you choose, Hurry up." just pick neither of them, there are other fish in the sea.
• Find that special friend to give you advice in the field. She may be seeing things that you don't.

Warnings

• Don't make any rash decisions, take your time.
• Please don't cheat on them. It only ends up ruining not only relationships but also friendships with people as well. Trust me on this!
• Never listen to your friends unless you know them really well.Because then you will get mad and end up dumping you boyfriend for no apparent reason. If you are happy with him then that is the smart thing to do.
• Really, just take time to figure things out. If you just let it be, things will turn out for the better. There is no wrong choice, and never let guys upset you. Although it may not seem like it- there are many guys out there that would love you.

Things You'll Need

• Paper and Pen
• Your best friend and close friends